Compiled by Jeff Lawton.
Another role of the godly parent is to cultivate compassion for others. Job trained his children to be generous, hospitable, responsible, kind, and considerate, and to be leaders when it came to building up others, building up the family, and building unity and harmony in the community.
This did not mean Job taught his children to compromise for the sake of agreement, but rather to hold strong principles and demonstrate genuine love.
How do we develop compassion for others? We first must experience God's love and then be challenged to pass on that love. Children first experience God's love by experiencing the love of their own parents. The more their parents express love to them, the quicker they are to show compassion.
Assure your children repeatedly of God's love, even when they disobey. Be affectionate with them, hugging and kissing them and putting your hand on their shoulders as a sign of encouragement.
Also, don't link your love to any behavioral trait in your child. Let your children know you love them just as God loves them, unconditionally. God loves us solely because we are His beloved, uniquely created children. Learn to love your children in the same way.
When you demonstrate love to your children, they gain a proper perspective of God. They learn to view the Lord as being a God of love and not wrath.
Deuteronomy 6:6-7
6 These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. 7 Impress them on your children.
xo*lm
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